May you already experience God in your trials!
]]>The Bible tells us flat out that this world is not our home. It is tempoary and will be passing away and everything in it. God making us in His image has put eternity in our hearts. We have a sense of living forever and we will but not here in this earthly life.
Your wife is home now, she is with the Lord I trust had she put her faith in Jesus while living here on this earth. Man is destined to life forever, God’s word says it and we sense it in our hearts.
When a loved one dies, there is no pain in this world as awful as that. It ripes your heart right out of your chest and the pain of the loss never goes away. What remains is a longing to see her again. We look back over our lives together and relive the good memories in our minds and hearts and that is a comfort. We find as time passes that the pain is less intense, but still intense even after three years has passed.
The word says, God is near the broken hearted. That is true. I have come to understand that God truly is near the broken hearted, it is the place where we meet Him face to face and heart to heart. He made us and He knows us better than we even know ourselves. You see He wants us to know Him and to trust Him inspite of our circumstances. He is ever so near to us in our deepest of darkness during the tear filled moments where we experience our loss at it’s deepest place. God is there and He causes that expression of our pain and anguish to squeeze the fullness of our tears from us. After such episodes there is a sence of calm after the storm, as the hope of His promises begin to seep into our minds and hearts as we come to realize that this earth is not our home.
The Lord points us home through His word. We are not to put all our eggs in the earthly basket, as the earthly basket will wear out and fall apart leaving our eggs broken all over the place. He has a better basket that He calls us to put our eggs into, it is His Heavenly baskert. Our home is in heaven and He calls us to come to Him there.
When our loved ones leave this earthly sphere and depart to places unknown we grieve and we grieve and we miss them and want them back. We want our old life, our old routines, and our old comforts to be restored.
The reality is that there is something unimaginably better ahead of us in store for us that we can not even imagine. The trial you are in my friend is probably one of the most difficult you will ever face in this life, here on earth. Take heart, as our etrnal life was never ment to be spent here on this earth that God in His word says is passing away. We are destined for heaven, a place without end. Forever and ever, that is unimaginable but we know in our hearts that we were meant to live forever and ever and I believe that is why it hurts so much when the wife you love with all your heart is taken from you.
He gives and takes away, our Lord. He tells us this in His word, we don’t look at His word from a eternal perspective but from a “whats in it for me” earthly perspective. The Lord my friend wants you to find the truth. Death brings us to the brink of that truth.
I wish I had more time to finish the entire thought, but need to go. I pray that you will find His comfort and that He will draw you even closer to Himself and that you will lean on Him in your life like never before. God bless you, I hope this short message from a brother living with the grief of loosing my wife will help you in finding God and trusting His plan, even though you do not understand it.
]]>1) Conviction which most times we ignore.
2) Prophetic message from anyone, reading material or anything.
3) Hardship which is always the hardest but we always get back to God when we reach this point.
Look back at your relationship with God and if anything went wrong somewhere, repent. if not, you are simply going through a trial which will not last forever.
God Bless.
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